Hope and Laughter at the NASW-NJ Conference

This past weekend was the annual NASW-NJ Conference. My husband and I went as presenters and as groupies! Every year we look forward to this wonderful weekend among our colleagues and friends.

My friend and colleague Donna Ellenbogen and I presented three workshops this year: Domestic Violence, Support for New Mothers and Humor Therapy. Diverse topics for a diverse audience. A total of 10 hours of presenting. It is both exhausting and exhilarating. There is such a wonderful energy among our fellow Social Workers. We come together to share our ideas and lend our support to each other. We learn from each other as many of us interpret things differently. We’re open to learning new ways of doing our difficult work.

I’ve written about Social Workers being the under-dogs; about us being misunderstood. Every year in Atlantic City, we become a powerful group with the energy and desire to take on the world. There is such a sense of hope and opportunity. We laugh and share our struggles. We provide hope and feedback. I feel like the conference is one big shot of adrenalin and confidence so we can all return to our work renewed and refreshed.

Many Social Workers go to the conference because they have to. We have to meet our Continuing Education credit requirements, after all. Yet, my hope is that all those who were reluctant to go got something out of it. None of us can effectively do this work without the support of each other. We are a community. Together we provide strength and camaraderie. The conference is our own mini-self-care crash course. That’s how I see it. It’s certainly work for me as I present and teach. Yet I learn so much from my fellow social workers. So many amazing points are made and debates are had. My eyes are always open to new ways of thinking. I feel less alone in my work as I see my colleagues nodding their heads to some of what I have to say.

Best of all, we Social Workers know how to have fun! Hard to believe, I know, but this conference had such a wonderful energy. Maybe I’m biased since we presented on Humor Therapy, but my cheeks still hurt from laughing! We all needed a good laugh and I believe most of us felt that this year. Our work is so intense. Our days can be incredibly stressful and the stories we hear can be utterly heartbreaking. I am so thankful we were all able to come together and laugh. Be light about the work we do. Reframe our perspective to see the hope and comedy. It is possible!

So thank you to all my fellow New Jersey Social Workers! See you next year!

Dr. Bob Likes My Post!

Okay, I can cross another item off my bucket list.  Dr. Bob responded to my post to him highlighting his work in my latest blog for Change.org!  Here is our exchange:

You are featured on Change.org
Aug 14, 2010

Hi Dr. Bob, First off, I have been following you for years now and I have to say that you are one of the most amazing professionals I have even encountered – if only via the internet! Okay, enough tushy-kissing! The real reason I’m writing is to let you know that I recently wrote a blog post on HIV Myths over on the Gay Rights Cause at Change.org. In the post I featured the tireless work that you do to combat all the myths and misinformation surrounding HIV that continue to spread faster than a viral of Kim Kardashian. I wanted to share the post with you. Here’s the link:

http://gayrights.change.org/blog/view/is_it_1990_again_hivaids_myths_are_alive_and_scary

Please check it out! And honestly, thank you so much for your snark and genuine humanity in dealing with this complicated disease. I direct all my clients and colleagues to this site and to you specifically. You truly are making a difference!

Elizabeth Lombino, LSW http://elizabethlombino.com

Response from Dr. Frascino

Hey Elizabeth,

Many thanks for the heads-up on your timely, topical and very well-written blog; the truly excellent plug; and most of all the “tushy-kissing”. All are warmly appreciated! Your comments about HIV/AIDS myths and misunderstanding as well as stigma and discrimination are right on target! BRAVO! Keep blogging and conducting those workshops. Debunking HIV/AIDS mythology and stigma often has a “pay it forward” effect. The 15 professionals you enlightened during your workshop may well each enlighten 30 clients who may go on to enlighten their friends, family, colleagues. And because of the six degrees of separation phenomenon that rules the world, your message may soon reach Anderson Cooper and/or Oprah Winfrey.

And now a special note to all readers of this forum, check out Elizabeth’s outstanding blog! You’ll be glad you did. Really.

Thanks again Elizabeth. I’ve started blogging for The Body recently. I promise to pick up on this story in a future blog.

Be well. Stay well. Ciao bella!

Dr. Bob

NASW-NJ Conference

The NASW-NJ Annual Conference in Atlantic City was a huge success!!  Hundreds of fellow Social Workers came together and shared our thoughts and ideas.  We had fun, we learned new skills and we shared our passion.

Thank you to all the Social Workers who attended my workshops.  And thank you for all of you who watched Dark Days with my husband and shared in the intense discussion that followed.  It was an amazing few days.  See you all next year!

NASW-NJ Conference this weekend!

The National Association of Social Workers’ (NASW) New Jersey Chapter is holding their Annual Conference this weekend from May 2 – May 4 in Atlantic City.  Hundreds of Social Workers meet up to enjoy workshops, see exhibits, share stories, network and de-compress.  Plus it’s supposed to be a beautiful weekend, so being down in AC will be a nice treat!

I am excited for the conference on so many levels – most of which is because I am presenting four workshops with my esteemed colleague, Donna Ellenbogen.  We have been working hard the past few weeks and now that the conference is here, it’s a bit surreal.  The topics we are presenting are Intimate Partner Violence, HIV and Social Work, Self Awareness, and The Wellness Community Model.  These are the areas I work in everyday and they are my passion.  To be presenting to dozens of Social Workers and sharing our skills and perspectives is going to be priceless.  I just hope we can keep the energy going for the entire conference — we’re going to be presenting a total of 14 hours in 3 days!!  If we live to tell about it, I’ll do a post on how it goes!

In addition to this, my amazing husband, Rich, is also going to be at the conference.  He’s doing his own event on viewing the movie Dark Days and doing a guided discussion around Homelessness.  We are truly a working family!

If you are in the AC area, come check us out!  We hope to see tons of Social Workers this weekend.  It should be  a blast!

Clinical for Clinicians

I’m going to make a bold statement – all social workers who conduct therapy need to be in therapy themselves.  I know this is a controversial topic.  There have been debates about this in workshops, supervision sessions, and classrooms around New Jersey and, I would imagine, around the country. Some feel it isn’t necessary.  Some feel it is imperative.

When I was in social work school, I had the opportunity to work with some seasoned and knowledgeable clinicians.  The ones who had the most to give, who were still happy in their work, and who seemed to be the most successful with their clients, were those who taught me the value of taking care of myself, including being in therapy.  

My clinical supervisor with whom I’ve been working with for the past 6 years told me from the start that we, as therapists, cannot do effective work if we are not working on ourselves.  Anytime I would present a case or discuss an issue that seemed to have deeper meaning for me, she would gently remind me to discuss this in my own therapy while giving me the tools to not let it effect the work I was doing with the client.

Many of us have non-clinical supervision and/or some additional opportunities for clinical discussions. This is not enough.  We need our own therapy.  We need more intensive clinical supervision that goes beyond case presentations and treatment planning.  We need ongoing support and strategies to take care of ourselves.  We need to look at our counter-transference, our stress management skills, and our self-care strategies.  We need Clinical for Clinicians.  Without this support, good clinicians can experience burnout and compassion fatigue.  Our profession needs great clinicians who are not suffering from these work hazards.

Many clinicians I know make this commitment to take care of themselves.  We receive our own therapy, form our own consultation groups, stay connected with our supervisors and colleagues, ask the hard questions of ourselves and seek to work through some of the challenges we face.  I am one clinician who has made this commitment.  I was in therapy during my social work school years and I have continued.  It is clear that I am not at my best if I am not working on my own issues.

It is important for social workers to be open and honest about the challenges of this profession, and to continue to learn and grow in the work we do.  The world around us is constantly changing and we need to be able to keep current and effective.  Only when we are aware of our own thoughts and feelings and learn to deal with them can we be fully present with our clients and assist them in being more productive members of society.

For more information on this issue, I welcome you to participate in my workshops at the NASW-NJ Annual Conference May 2-4 in Atlantic City, including Experiencing a Parallel Process: Using The Wellness Community Model in Working with Clients and Working on Ourselves and Building Self-Awareness Skills: A Fresh Look at Who We Are in the Work We Do. We can continue this conversation and share ideas and strategies to help us to be the most effective clinicians we can be.

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